Unlocking Life

Can a list change your life?

Only you can answer that. I think they can be a useful start - masses of information condensed down into short, compulsive reading, easy to digest. They can serve as inspiration to start changing or to learn more about certain methods to improve yourself. But user beware! Anyone can make a list and post it to the internet. I could post a list of 'unexpected health foods' which included bacon cheeseburgers, lard smoothies, and fudge with some rubbish as to why these might be good for you. Some people might take it as gospel. Be sure to take lists with a pinch of salt - these things may not work for you. They might even be bad for you.

That said, let's get on to the list at hand: www.highexistence.com/life-secrets-and-tips/

I've taken their comments out and added my own. Check out the link and make your own mind up!

1. Memorize something everyday. A good shout. Good for the old grey matter, good for the banter. Good luck actually managing it!
2. Constantly try to reduce your attachment to possessions. I agree. Don't let your possessions own you. Try to curb that hoarding impulse.
3. Develop an endless curiosity about this world. Another agreement here, but I was once a scientist so have some bias with regards to this point.
4. Remember people’s names. Just common courtesy, no?
5. Get fit! One of the most important points on the list. 'Nuff said.
6. Learn to focus only on the present. I disagree. Learn from the past (don't dwell on it though!) and plan for the future (without getting obsessed). Perhaps focus more on the present but not to the exclusion of all else.
7. Even more specifically, live in THIS moment. Cheap rehash of the previous point for emphasis. I still disagree.
8. Smile more often. Fine, but don't be false about it. To me, this is no better than saying 'be happy more'.
9. Drink water. Yes. Do it. Do it lots.
10. Don’t take life so seriously! Yeah, lighten up grumpy-guts!
11. Think positive thoughts. Bit similar to the last one.
12. Read books. Get smart, have fun.
13. Get in the sun. If you can! It's called Vitamin D...
14. Help others. Makes everyone feel good. You do get some arseholes though.

15. Set aside a specific time to worry each day. What happened to the positive thoughts and living in the moment?
16. Be honest at all times. So true!
17. Sleep less. Lies! Sleep in less - seize the day - but be sure to sleep enough for good health, physical (to get fit you need it) and mental.
18. Read “Bringers of Light” and “Conversations with God” by Neale Donald Walsch. I wonder if the author gets a commission? They might be good books but this really comes under 'Read more' for me.
19. Figure out what your goals and dreams are. Thinking about the future again? This list seems inconsistent.
20. Start your day off right. They say meditation. I say a good breakfast. Porridge.
21. Utilize ‘The Burning Method.’ Getting rid of negative thoughts - see a theme?
22. Travel.
23. The Rubber Band Method. Another way to rid yourself of those pesky thoughts. But if you had the thought it's already too late to stop it! Bit repetitive.
24. Learn to be unaffected by the words of others. i.e. Don't think negative thoughts because of someone else. Or don't listen to anyone. Depends on how you read it.
25. Read “Zen and the Art of Happiness” by Chris Prentiss. Another book plug? Really?
26. Develop the ability to forgive. True. Take the high ground. Move on.
27. Be the person that makes others feel special. By remembering their name, for one.
28. Learn to lucid dream. This seems to be not quite being asleep. Or tripping.
29. Visualize daily. This is just visual goal setting. Repeat in my book. *Yawn*
30. Meditate everyday for at least 20 minutes. I have tried this. Not getting much out of it yet but might not be doing it properly. 20 minutes is quite a long time. Got to build up to that.
31. Learn to control your mind. They keep saying this. I know it's important!
32. Learn to control your emotions. See above.
33. Take a class in speed reading. I disagree. Relax. Enjoy the reading. Absorb it. Relish it.
34. Relax!
35. Work on making good first impressions. Please, please, please learn to shake hands properly!
36. Learn to use your eyes to their full potential. What? For a better life? This is important enough for life in 50 points? I'm not sold.
37. Be mysterious. But don't be a prick about it.
38. Come up with a life mantra. 'S**t happens' is probably not what the author had in mind...
39. Get good at something. Everybody likes a talent.
40. Work out those abs. Why is this not under get fit?
41. Keep your brain sharp. Mental agility is pretty important.
42. Read something inspirational right before bed and after waking. More reading.
43. Do what you love. If you can. If not, love what you do.
44. Choose your friends wisely.
45. Don’t burn bridges. It really inconveniences people who have to cross rivers.
46. Keep a journal/diary. Helps on the journey to those goals.
47. Read “New Pyscho-Cybernetics” by Dr. Maxwell Maltz. Another book.
48. Learn to use and trust your subconscious/intuition. Tricky one to master, that.
49. Develop a charismatic personality. Be cool.
50. Love is all there is. Not sure about this but I think everyone should try to believe. Discussing this fully would require a whole new blog post. Or a book.

It's a good list. Quite long. My condensed version:

1) Be healthy

2) Be happy

3) Get smart

4) Know thyself

5) Learn to interact with others effectively.

Only you know how to achieve this. Use the lists as inspiration. Take action.